125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel… “So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.” – Esther Perel 42.322587-79.57702Share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Click to email this to a friend (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Like this:Like Loading... Related 4 thoughts on “125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…” I agree with Esther, there are so many variables to consider in answering the question but I don’t believe once a cheater always a cheater. Like she explains, often it comes down to a poor choice and an inability to communicate dissatisfaction with the relationship rather than a pattern of behavior. Loading... I agree as well. While the pain is the same, there are different circumstances to infidelity, no one story is the same. I don’t believe in stereotyping… Loading... Gotta love Esther Perel. She’s my spirit animal 🙂 Loading... You got Esther Perel?! Damn, all I got was a porcupine. Loading... Comments are closed.