125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…

“So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.”

– Esther Perel

4 thoughts on “125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…

  1. I agree with Esther, there are so many variables to consider in answering the question but I don’t believe once a cheater always a cheater. Like she explains, often it comes down to a poor choice and an inability to communicate dissatisfaction with the relationship rather than a pattern of behavior.

  2. I agree as well. While the pain is the same, there are different circumstances to infidelity, no one story is the same. I don’t believe in stereotyping…

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