The meaningful question from my Good Doctor, and other good doctors, is “if you love/care for others why have you lied and kept secrets that has harmed and injured your Loves, lives, and self?”Read More 12: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Mostly Dead Cats
It is time do something different. Failure is feedback, not prophesy. This is my rock now. I’ll go push it alone.Read More 55: Try This Again Shall We?
Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.Read More 54: Lessons from a Black Friday
Who are your friends?Read More 09: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Friends
This is my pattern. I am committed to breaking the pattern.Read More 46: The Silent Treatment
Pain isn’t the enemy. Suicide isn’t the answer.Read More 06: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Suicide
One of the accusations leveled at men and women post discovery of #infidelity is the intentions to change, remorse, shame is all manufactured after the fact. That wasn’t my experience. I rediscovered a post about shame I wrote to © a month before discovery.Read More The Things I Carry – The Preamble to Failure
I know you hurt Pain is not wrong…The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain. Tara Brach, Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha Good day my Friend. Depending where you are, it may not feel like a good […]Read More 03: A Love Letter to the Betrayer – I Know You Hurt
You are allowed to change relationships even if no one else understands. You are allowed to try again. You are allowed to walk away. You are not the same person you were yesterday. You are free to chose your life even if it is misunderstood.
Even if it appears to be a contradiction.Read More 02: A Love Letter to the Betrayer – Contradictions
Where I described her as my anchor, I realize she was simply a mooring and we lacked a secure attachment.Read More Thoughts on Mark Nepo’s The Bee Comes