I was reminded again today that the consequences of my betrayal, secret keeping, and escalating series of lies casts a long shadow.Read More 64: Reminder2Self – Vengeance
By deferring to my intentions I am essentially saying, “Yes I hear you hurt, but you shouldn’t hurt because that wasn’t my intention.” It carries the same intentions when someone say, “If you really cared you wouldn’t have cheated.”Read More 14: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Intent vs Impact
I would do ‘most anything
To get you back by my side
But I just keep on laughing
Hiding the tears in my eyes
Feelings are data, not directives.Read More 13: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Safety
The meaningful question from my Good Doctor, and other good doctors, is “if you love/care for others why have you lied and kept secrets that has harmed and injured your Loves, lives, and self?”Read More 12: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Mostly Dead Cats
Here are the Top 5 most visited posts in 2019.Read More Top 5 Visited Posts of 2019
Let’s talk about my ex-wife.Read More 57: My Favorite Ex-Wife
A man cannot live one life fully split between two moments, two gardens. Inevitably they both will be overtaken with weeds. As I continue to tend my garden I recognize we reap what we sow. There are still weeds in my garden. There will always be weeds and they are my weeds.
I planted these. I will tend to them.Read More 56: Things I Carry – Tending My Secret Garden
It is time do something different. Failure is feedback, not prophesy. This is my rock now. I’ll go push it alone.Read More 55: Try This Again Shall We?
Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.Read More 54: Lessons from a Black Friday