Tag: vulnerable

63: Pursuing Vulnerability

Wanders

What matters is my commitment to change and not what others think of my intentions or motivations. I get up every morning and ask myself, “What is my truth to own today?”

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49: Kryptonite

Wanders

I was responsible for the emotional safety, physical well-being, and financial security for another person and their life. Someone that was not my child.

The expectations and pressure destroyed me.

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Thoughts on the Flying Monkeys (The Narcissist’s Tool for the Smear Campaign)

Wanders

Don’t misunderstand, I’m not saying there aren’t “narcissists in the world, just not as many as you would guess from the number diagnosed as narcissists by disappointed partners.”

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Thoughts on the Flying Monkeys (The Narcissist’s Tool for the Smear Campaign)

Wanders

Don’t misunderstand, I’m not saying there aren’t “narcissists in the world, just not as many as you would guess from the number diagnosed as narcissists by disappointed partners.”

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38: It Ain’t Me Babe

Wanders

If you love someone you have to be open to hurting them and accept responsibility. If you love someone you have to be open to let them hurt you and accept that responsibility too. That is adulting. That is what it means to be vulnerable.

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36: A Bit of This and That

Wanders

Just as “…but I love you” isn’t a get out of jail free card following betrayal, “…but you cheated” isn’t either. In both cases it is a deflection from the things that matter.

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