Feelings are data, not directives.Read More 13: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Safety
Here are the Top 5 most visited posts in 2019.Read More Top 5 Visited Posts of 2019
Let’s talk about my ex-wife.Read More 57: My Favorite Ex-Wife
A man cannot live one life fully split between two moments, two gardens. Inevitably they both will be overtaken with weeds. As I continue to tend my garden I recognize we reap what we sow. There are still weeds in my garden. There will always be weeds and they are my weeds.
I planted these. I will tend to them.Read More 56: Things I Carry – Tending My Secret Garden
It is time do something different. Failure is feedback, not prophesy. This is my rock now. I’ll go push it alone.Read More 55: Try This Again Shall We?
This is my pattern. I am committed to breaking the pattern.Read More 46: The Silent Treatment
Pain isn’t the enemy. Suicide isn’t the answer.Read More 06: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Suicide
It is impossible for people that never walked in our shoes to know what is true about our behaviors, why we did what we did, or what it means. I barely understand and others certainly never will.Read More 05: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Labels and Abuse
What I know now after nearly two years of counseling is no one deserves anything. We are not entitled to happiness, comfort, safety, or even the truth or honesty. We are owed nothing. The only right we have with other people is to leave. We choose to stay, we choose to leave, but it is still our choice.Read More 44: Passing Judgement
The Good Doctor asked me today if I still love you?Read More 43: Do I Love You?