Infidelity is an unskillful coping mechanism. Any other story is built on the lie of wounded egos.
A Love Letter to Betrayers
43: What is Infidelity?
Infidelity is a coping mechanism. Everything else is a story.
22: A Love Letter to Betrayers – Discomfort (Part 2)
Apparently, among other things, lying, cheating, and carrying secrets feels like food poisoning.
21: A Love Letter to Betrayers – Discomfort (Part 1)
When I spend resources trying to avoid the painful moment I am imagining, I will never know how to respond to the actual experience. Everything becomes a story about a fix to a broken fix to another useless hole. These responses to my discomfort only create a new narrative of pain for myself and others. I avoid living in an impermanent moment out of fear.
20: A Love Letter to Betrayers – Court
Your mistakes do not make you unworthy of legal protections.