01: A Love Letter to the Betrayers
It seems I’m compelled to write to the men and women that betrayed their Loves, lives, and selves directly.
Read More"Be not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience, that shall explain and overlook the old." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
It seems I’m compelled to write to the men and women that betrayed their Loves, lives, and selves directly.
Read MoreThere is nothing simple that I have chosen to do. I think it is human to believe change is for the other person even when we know the solution lies within.
Read MoreEvery time I hear one person tell another some variation of, “Staying in your partnership and trying to transform the conflict means you’re weak, a chump, abused, suffering from Stockholm syndrome, and your past history was just one big lie,” I think, “Wow! Who’s gaslighting who here?!”
Seriously?! How do you know?
Read MoreI luv this woman and her writing. More than most others, she makes me examine my biases. She does so because she makes an effort to examine her own.
Read More127: Monkeys in the Middle
I’ve gone to lengths not to put people in the middle of my situation. I don’t want anyone else to carry my water.
Read More125: Once a cheater…
“So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.” – Esther Perel
Read More109: Blah. Blah. Blah.
“Trying to affair-proof your relationship is a fool’s errand. You will be far happier if you focus on affair proofing yourself and keeping your expectations on your partner realistically human.”
Read More108: Never Not Broken
The weight of all of these losses and feelings finally broke me this week. I feel nothing but sadness, loneliness, despair, and emptiness today.
I have nothing to offer anyone. Not even myself. I’m hollow now.
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