01: A Love Letter to the Betrayers
It seems I’m compelled to write to the men and women that betrayed their Loves, lives, and selves directly.
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32: Eeyore Visits Mordor
There is nothing simple that I have chosen to do. I think it is human to believe change is for the other person even when we know the solution lies within.
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31: Drive by Shaming
Every time I hear one person tell another some variation of, “Staying in your partnership and trying to transform the conflict means you’re weak, a chump, abused, suffering from Stockholm syndrome, and your past history was just one big lie,” I think, “Wow! Who’s gaslighting who here?!”
Seriously?! How do you know?
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138:01 Thoughts on Sluts and Creative Writing by The Queen Dolly
I luv this woman and her writing. More than most others, she makes me examine my biases. She does so because she makes an effort to examine her own.
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127: Monkeys in the Middle
127: Monkeys in the Middle
I’ve gone to lengths not to put people in the middle of my situation. I don’t want anyone else to carry my water.
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125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…
125: Once a cheater…
“So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.” – Esther Perel
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109: Blah. Blah. Blah.
109: Blah. Blah. Blah.
“Trying to affair-proof your relationship is a fool’s errand. You will be far happier if you focus on affair proofing yourself and keeping your expectations on your partner realistically human.”
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108: Never Not Broken
108: Never Not Broken
The weight of all of these losses and feelings finally broke me this week. I feel nothing but sadness, loneliness, despair, and emptiness today.
I have nothing to offer anyone. Not even myself. I’m hollow now.
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