thoughts – Love Letters to a Healing Heart

Best of 2018’s Week 43

October 28, 2018 Wanders

From where I stand the primary issues in our relationship wasn’t codependency, enabling, echosim or some clickbait pathology. Those attitudes and approach to communication may have retarded the growth of our relationship and vulnerability but they were never the drivers for me. I still strongly hold to the view that the primary conflicts in our relationship were an issue of communication, not compatibility, motivations, or intentions. Lack of vulnerable communication created a decision-making patchwork defined by guesswork.

Best of 2018’s Week 42

October 21, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

Here are the people, places, and things that carry me forward through the day as I trudge the road of happy destiny.

146: Thoughts on The Marriage of the Princess and the Dragon

October 1, 2018June 2, 2021 Wanders

I long for the chance to show C what is under the armor. I long for the chance to explore what C and I could create together…but that life is dead.

Best of 2018’s Week 39

September 30, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

Here are the people, places, and things that carry me forward through the day as I trudge the road of happy destiny.

Best of 2018’s Week 38

September 23, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

I miss your smile…and belonging to you.

Here are the people, places, and things that carry me forward through the day as I trudge the road of happy destiny.

141: It’s not about me

September 21, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

I miss her. Sometimes I would just sit in the living room and watch her paint. I know she has been struggling with creating. I hope this is the start of her uncorking her creative bottle.

140: Parable of the Prickly Porcupine

September 20, 2018June 10, 2021 Wanders

I realize now my anger and defensiveness were about armoring my heart. I cannot get to where I want to go when weighed down by my anger’s armor.

140: Parable of the Prickly Porcupine

September 20, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

I realize now my anger and defensiveness were about armoring my heart. I cannot get to where I want to go when weighed down by my anger’s armor.

Best of 2018’s Week 37

September 16, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

Best of 2018’s Week 37

“We may want to love other people without holding back, to feel authentic, to breathe in the beauty around us, to dance and sing. Yet each day we listen to inner voices that keep our life small.” – @TaraBrach

136: Forgotten

September 13, 2018May 10, 2019 Wanders

136: Forgotten

I’ve spent much time and energy focused on my Ugly and working through my pain and loss. As such, I’ve stopped examining what was beautiful and good. It has created a myopic and unbalanced perspective on Our lives.

Love Letters to a Healing Heart

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