From where I stand the primary issues in our relationship wasn’t codependency, enabling, echosim or some clickbait pathology. Those attitudes and approach to communication may have retarded the growth of our relationship and vulnerability but they were never the drivers for me. I still strongly hold to the view that the primary conflicts in our relationship were an issue of communication, not compatibility, motivations, or intentions. Lack of vulnerable communication created a decision-making patchwork defined by guesswork.
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Best of 2018’s Week 42
Here are the people, places, and things that carry me forward through the day as I trudge the road of happy destiny.
146: Thoughts on The Marriage of the Princess and the Dragon
I long for the chance to show C what is under the armor. I long for the chance to explore what C and I could create together…but that life is dead.
Best of 2018’s Week 39
Here are the people, places, and things that carry me forward through the day as I trudge the road of happy destiny.
Best of 2018’s Week 38
I miss your smile…and belonging to you.
Here are the people, places, and things that carry me forward through the day as I trudge the road of happy destiny.