I was never confused about Painter’s decision to end the relationship. Although I was hurt and sad, I was never confused. I understood.
61: Relational Blackjack
59: Thoughts on Kindness and Toxicity
Painter is unsafe and dangerous for me because I struggle to see her for what she does. I sometimes forget how skillful -- and willing -- she is at getting other people to carry her water.
46: Stories of Safety
Nothing I do or say will create a sense of safety for people avoiding their own traumas. I cannot love someone enough to heal the wounds they are trying to avoid.
38: Courting Answers
Monday, I return to court for the final act. Well, at least I intend it to be the final act.
34: Trauma Stories
Everyone, and I mean everyone, will disconnect from their thinking brain when the pain exceeds their ability to cope. The only difference is what overwhelms me won't always overwhelm you.
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