Top 5 Visited Posts of 2019
Here are the Top 5 most visited posts in 2019.
Read More Top 5 Visited Posts of 2019Category: Pema Chödrön
57: My Favorite Ex-Wife
Let’s talk about my ex-wife.
Read More 57: My Favorite Ex-Wife56: Things I Carry – Tending My Secret Garden
A man cannot live one life fully split between two moments, two gardens. Inevitably they both will be overtaken with weeds. As I continue to tend my garden I recognize we reap what we sow. There are still weeds in my garden. There will always be weeds and they are my weeds.
I planted these. I will tend to them.
Read More 56: Things I Carry – Tending My Secret Garden54: Lessons from a Black Friday
Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.
Read More 54: Lessons from a Black Friday09: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Friends
Who are your friends?
Read More 09: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Friends46: The Silent Treatment
This is my pattern. I am committed to breaking the pattern.
Read More 46: The Silent TreatmentThoughts on Pema Chödrön’s Non-Aggression and the 4 Maras
We are what we embrace. If we embrace the problem than we are the problem. If we embrace the solution we are the solution. If I embrace shame do I not become my shame?
Read More Thoughts on Pema Chödrön’s Non-Aggression and the 4 Maras06: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Suicide
Pain isn’t the enemy. Suicide isn’t the answer.
Read More 06: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Suicide43: Do I Love You?
The Good Doctor asked me today if I still love you?
Read More 43: Do I Love You?42: This Thing and That One
A bit of this thing and that.
People do what they know how to do until the emotional cost of change is less than the emotional cost of protecting the status quo. We all carry a load that was cast there through the fire of experience.
Read More 42: This Thing and That One