Best of 2018’s Week 44

Although I dream about C every day, I can’t go back, she’s gone away. It knocked me down but that’s okay. I’ve got this life to fix. I threw it all out in a ditch. Broken down when I was sick, now I gotta build it back up brick by brick.

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Best of 2018’s Week 43

From where I stand the primary issues in our relationship wasn’t codependency, enabling, echosim or some clickbait pathology. Those attitudes and approach to communication may have retarded the growth of our relationship and vulnerability but they were never the drivers for me. I still strongly hold to the view that the primary conflicts in our relationship were an issue of communication, not compatibility, motivations, or intentions. Lack of vulnerable communication created a decision-making patchwork defined by guesswork.

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Best of 2018’s Week 37

Best of 2018’s Week 37

“We may want to love other people without holding back, to feel authentic, to breathe in the beauty around us, to dance and sing. Yet each day we listen to inner voices that keep our life small.” – @TaraBrach

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Best of 2018’s Week 36

“Well, to be honest, Sean, I’ve known a lot of people in my life and seen a lot of relationships! But none more honest than you, whose taken responsibility and doing the work so it doesn’t happen again. And that says something.” – My Client and Friend

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Best of 2018’s Week 34

Best of 2018’s Week 34

Nothing can prepare me for walking through the door except walking through it. I won’t even know its a door until I’m through, maybe not even then. All I do know, if there was ever any truth in our hearts about our future, we will find our way back together. And if not? Well, if not, we will find ourselves elsewhere.

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