The truth is I offered her far more grace than I gave myself.
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11: A Love Letter to the Betrayers: The Monsters
Sure there are monsters, but in truth, most of what we are calling monster behavior is simply someone doing something stupid for stupid and innocent reasons. It’s just poor judgment, not pathological.
There are actually very few monsters.
Thoughts on the Flying Monkeys (The Narcissist’s Tool for the Smear Campaign)
Don’t misunderstand, I’m not saying there aren’t “narcissists in the world, just not as many as you would guess from the number diagnosed as narcissists by disappointed partners.”
153.03: The Pattern (Part 3)
The moment I awoke to the reality that © doesn’t care about me, our life, or our future, I am free. I am free to go dancing. I am free to walk into any place and order a beer. Free to ask a friend that loves me, accepts my Ugly, and hasn’t run, to dance with me.
151: Thoughts on Cruelty
Cruelty is cheap, easy, and chickenshit. – Brene Brown, Dare to Lead