Too often, stories in my life have been real because I needed them to be true, not because they are true.
I find myself in places where I end up trying to control her responses and feelings. I believe, and so does she apparently, I am responsible for how she feels and how she responds, not just for what I do.
There is nothing simple that I have chosen to do. I think it is human to believe change is for the other person even when we know the solution lies within.
I’m looking to answer the central question Dr. Madden asks in her book, After A Good Man Cheats, “Do u really want ur relationship back, or r u simply panicking & doing the things u think u r supposed to do?"