Today I recognize my choices for what they were—an unfortunate and unskillful habit of treating how I felt like a directive. I realize how often, in intimate and vulnerable relationships, I responded with a habituated neurological urge to pursue what I considered comfortable feelings while avoiding the discomfort.Read More 19: Opinions
“It hurts to grow alone,” writes C. JoyBell C. “It hurts to realise that someone else won’t be coming with you.” As a result, I now recognize growth is always a selfish act.
Always.Read More 16: Growth and Change
The Thing always breaks where the bonds are weakest, not strongest.Read More 12: Broken Cups
I have no obligation to anyone to be the same today as I was a year ago or even 15 minutes ago. I have the right to shed the ideas, opinions, behaviors, and beliefs I held even a short time ago when I realize they aren’t working for me.Read More 11: Slaves and Heroes
The cynical and bitter will call it image management.
Everyone else will call it adulting.Read More 02: Own Your Shame