I have no desire to be another's jailer. I have no interest in being another's prisoner.
Moving forward, "Are my choices and actions consistent with what I value or am I doing things simply because I are afraid of what will happen if I don't?" I need to know to move forward.
Don't misunderstand, I'm not saying there aren't "narcissists in the world, just not as many as you would guess from the number diagnosed as narcissists by disappointed partners."
It seems I'm compelled to write to the men and women that betrayed their Loves, lives, and selves directly.