Tag: other woman

125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…

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125: Once a cheater…

“So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.” – Esther Perel

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101.5: Unringing the Bell (Epilogue)

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101.5: Unringing the Bell (5 of 5) – Epilogue

As my life with C fades to a distant and ringing echo I will move forward with intention. The lessons remain.

I’m excited about the possibilities.

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101.1: Unringing the Bell (Part 1 of 5)

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101: Unringing the Bell (1 of 5) – No excuse

There is not a way back after the first act. I cannot unring the bell no matter how many lies I tell or secrets I keep about my betrayal.

And I had many of both.

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88: K

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88: K

I made the decision to spend time with K. My betrayal of C, and the subsequent behaviors and the betrayal of K are inexorably linked. One betrayal cannot exist without the other.

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