Here is the reality, dig down a bit, and beneath all Painter’s cuntishness is pain. I know it isn’t personal, except where I make it so.
adultery
48: Fall in Love
Try this again shall we?
Thoughts on Pema Chödrön’s Non-Aggression and the 4 Maras
We are what we embrace. If we embrace the problem than we are the problem. If we embrace the solution we are the solution. If I embrace shame do I not become my shame?
43: Do I Love You?
The Good Doctor asked me today if I still love you?
36: A Bit of This and That
Just as “…but I love you” isn’t a get out of jail free card following betrayal, “…but you cheated” isn’t either. In both cases it is a deflection from the things that matter.