81: Ripping up the old contract — A Couples Journey of Recovery from Sex Addiction

Just setting this here for future reference.

“I’ve rightfully felt anger, rage, hurt, trauma, disrespect, tricked and disgust because he fucked other women – plain and simple – and him fucking other women was NOT in my plan. Guess what? I can’t control other people, and shit happens.”

Mr. Perfect and I had a counseling appointment on Saturday that, at my request, dug up a whole lot of shit for me. I wanted him to say certain things like “ok, having sex with a bunch of women wasn’t all painful as I have always insisted – I got erections, fantasized about them, and […]

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