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"Be not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience, that shall explain and overlook the old." – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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65.3: 8 Days: Thoughts on How More Secrets and Lies Destroy Relationships by Darlene Lancer

This article is without a doubt, the most accurate, and thorough description of my thinking, actions, feelings, and perception of self I have found about the consequences, pain, and anxiety of being tied down by secrets and lies.

Read More 65.3: 8 Days: Thoughts on How More Secrets and Lies Destroy Relationships by Darlene Lancer

65.2: 9 Days: It’s all speculation

Vaccums suck.

As such, it is good to have someone with experience offer me some insight…even if neither of us know the whole story and are speculating based on our own unique pain.

Read More 65.2: 9 Days: It’s all speculation

61: Other Peoples Problems — A Couples Journey of Recovery from Sex Addiction

Other Peoples Problems — A Couples Journey of Recovery from Sex Addiction.

Worth reposting because I find perspectives like this few and far between.

Read More 61: Other Peoples Problems — A Couples Journey of Recovery from Sex Addiction

59: Thoughts on Thanks for Stopping by: A Letter to an Interloper by Dolly Allen

Yesterday morning I woke up to find a comment by the troll Warren about me on a friend’s blog.

What happened next was both fascinating, amazing, and a bit terrifying.

Dolly is definitely the Queen.

Read More 59: Thoughts on Thanks for Stopping by: A Letter to an Interloper by Dolly Allen

48: Thoughts on Adulting 101 – The other side by Walking the Journey

I really enjoyed this story of friendship, love, and forgiveness from my Twitter friend Walking the Journey.  I especially like this paragraph about seeing her husband facing the shame of his infidelity.

It’s important to embrace the other side.

Read More 48: Thoughts on Adulting 101 – The other side by Walking the Journey

43: Thoughts on the Diagnosis De Jour: Narcissism by Dolly Allen

“True pathological narcissism has always been rare and remains so: It affects an estimated 1 percent of the population, and that prevalence hasn’t changed demonstrably since clinicians started measuring it.” – Psychology Today

Read More 43: Thoughts on the Diagnosis De Jour: Narcissism by Dolly Allen

20: Zero Sum Love

You are, however, not perfect. But neither is anyone else. 

Read More 20: Zero Sum Love

18: Thoughts on The Journey Back by Dolly Allen

I do not see any way home for me following the reveal of my lies and infidelity. However, what is true for me isn’t true for everyone. Don’t let angry pride make you a fool.

Read More 18: Thoughts on The Journey Back by Dolly Allen

17: Thoughts on Why Rock Bottom is a Powerful Place by Lisa Arends

Originally posted on Lessons From the End of a Marriage:
Rock Bottom. A place that brings dread. That no one would choose to visit. And yet it is also a place of mysterious power. That allows us to tap into the power within ourselves. Because when you’re at Rock Bottom you have… Nothing to Lose…

Read More 17: Thoughts on Why Rock Bottom is a Powerful Place by Lisa Arends

14: Thoughts on the Pros and Cons of a Disappearing Act by Lisa Arends

Originally posted on Lessons From the End of a Marriage:
Being abandoned sucks. The shock alone is enough to stop your heart. And then, once it starts beating again, all you want to to is yell at your so-called partner who thought it was acceptable to simply walk away with no notice and no dialog. It…

Read More 14: Thoughts on the Pros and Cons of a Disappearing Act by Lisa Arends

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