87: Dogs and Cats

A dog simply wants to love you, be accepted, and be loved. He wants to belong. You own them.

But a cat? A cat owns you.

87: Dogs and Cats

A dog simply wants to love you, be accepted, and be loved. He wants to belong. You own them.

But a cat? A cat owns you.

Friday’s Guest Writer: Goodbye (03)

Goodbye by Friday’s Guest Writer (03)

20 months you were in MY husband’s thoughts and heart. I’ve ran through so many emotions and feelings towards you. Today I’m left with pity. And nausea. And fury.

85: Running Away

85: Running Scared

I only know what the trolls’ think. I will never know what C feels or thinks because, like so much of my relationship, she lacks the courage and willingness to tell me. That gives her power.

84: Exist In The Moment (One more thought)

This is the only path to rediscovering my self-respect and power. It is the only path to transform myself and my life.

More vulnerability, not less, is the only path to my heart.

83: Thoughts on A Short Guide on How To Cope With An Unfaithful Lover

83: A Short Guide on How To Cope With An Unfaithful Lover

I thought this was an excellent read with many sound perspectives. Perspectives that grow in importance over time.

A few things I would add though.

Friday’s Guest Writer: Sucker Punched (02)

Sucker Punched by Friday’s Guest Writer (02)

My name is Jen, and I am a betrayed spouse. If you are reading this, I am sorry that this has happened to you. However, maybe you will find something useful as you navigate this journey.

82.1: The Elephant (An Update)

82.1: The Elephant – Like Clockwork

It is rewarding to hear people see me, my heart, and intentions without the ghost stories.

82: The Elephant

This morning at 8:00 am CST I am facing my fears, anxieties, and humiliations. Anxiety wants me to hide so I’ve decided to do the opposite. I’m going to treat Anxiety like the bully it is: I’m going to punch it in the nose.

80: Thank You

Thank You

As I cross the next bridge on my pilgrimage I do not know what I will find on the journey. However, whatever the travel brings I hope our paths cross on the road of life.