Tag: adultery

125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…

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125: Once a cheater…

“So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.” – Esther Perel

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123: Thoughts on The Onus of Healing by A Couples Journey of Recovery from Sex Addiction

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123: The Onus of Healing by A Couples Journey of Recovery from Sex Addiction

I need – no I WANT, someone that will work through the hard and Ugly things and not run away because they are scared or angry or shallow.

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119: And so it goes

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119: And so it goes

“How often we murder parts of ourselves by not letting things advance or come close. How often we let fear rule our emotional lives. How often we kill or chase away everything that moves.” – @MarkNepo

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119: And so it goes

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119: And so it goes

“How often we murder parts of ourselves by not letting things advance or come close. How often we let fear rule our emotional lives. How often we kill or chase away everything that moves.” – @MarkNepo

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118: Thoughts on Forgiveness and Clemency

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118: Thoughts on Forgiveness and Clemency

I realize, like so much, I have been approaching this wrong: I’ve been seeking forgiveness from C, that is selfish. Is it any wonder C is still pissed?

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118: Thoughts on Forgiveness and Clemency

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118: Thoughts on Forgiveness and Clemency

I realize, like so much, I have been approaching this wrong: I’ve been seeking forgiveness from C, that is selfish. Is it any wonder C is still pissed?

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112: Thoughts on What am I doing? by Walking the Journey

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112: @Dawn_ByTheCreek asks, “What am I doing?”

I’ve asked myself that question thousands of times a day over the years of my betrayal.  I’ve asked myself that questions a thousand times a day since the reveal.

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