The Good Doctor asked me today if I still love you?Read More 43: Do I Love You?
Here is the truth, I have taken responsibility everyday for what is mine, but only for what is mine. I need to let others be responsible for what is theirs.Read More 41: An Apology to Indy
I feel like I am finally closing the door on this experience and moving forward. The conversation reminded me again, like my marriage to K and my relationship with C, I am more than the sum of my betrayal.Read More 35: Say Something
Every time I hear one person tell another some variation of, “Staying in your partnership and trying to transform the conflict means you’re weak, a chump, abused, suffering from Stockholm syndrome, and your past history was just one big lie,” I think, “Wow! Who’s gaslighting who here?!”
Seriously?! How do you know?Read More 31: Drive by Shaming
I packed up everything and moved to Pittsburgh last week. I don’t see myself ever going back. I don’t want to be here but none the less I am.
And that’s that…Read More 24: And that’s that
My marriage to K was a wonderful, meaningful relationship too. I never regretted marrying K but I have all too often regretted not making the most of it.
The question becomes then, “Why don’t you go back to your ex-wife?”Read More 14: K
121: Trickle Truth HELL by Walking the Journey
The truth will not set you free. What you do with the truth will.Read More 121: Thoughts on Trickle Truth HELL by Walking the Journey
112: @Dawn_ByTheCreek asks, “What am I doing?”
I’ve asked myself that question thousands of times a day over the years of my betrayal. I’ve asked myself that questions a thousand times a day since the reveal.Read More 112: Thoughts on What am I doing? by Walking the Journey
103: Three Conversations
Love and leave. Love and stay. There is no wrong answer.
What would you do? Do you have the courage to move through the pride and face the pain?Read More 103: Three Conversations
As I look back on the experience and choices I keep bumping up against the same wall: Pride. It has been the primary motivator behind my secret-keeping and escalating series of lies.Read More 98: Pride