Here is the thing: if I want to be less trigger-happy (triggery? triggered?) I need to deal with my shit. Me. No one else.
I realize now my anger and defensiveness were about armoring my heart. I cannot get to where I want to go when weighed down by my anger's armor.
109: Blah. Blah. Blah. "Trying to affair-proof your relationship is a fool’s errand. You will be far happier if you focus on affair proofing yourself and keeping your expectations on your partner realistically human.”
101.3: Unringing the Bell (3 of 5) - The Human Beings I've talked about C and K in fairly abstract terms. I need to take some time and clarify details on those relationships as I see them. I want you to see them as people too.