22: Broken
How can I hope for her forgiveness when I cannot forgive myself?
Read More 22: Broken21: Drinking from the firehose
This is the gift of infidelity: it makes you stare into the mirror and see all the truths about yourself. Some are ugly. Some are bad. Some are good. All of them are important. Unfortunately, early in the process of addressing an infidelity, getting perspective is like drinking from a firehose.
Read More 21: Drinking from the firehose20: Zero Sum Love
You are, however, not perfect. But neither is anyone else.
Read More 20: Zero Sum Love19: Running Silent
As she knows, she is the only one that owns my heart and has been since the day we met. Almost every moment since we met I’ve acted that way and anything else is a ghost story.
Read More 19: Running Silent18: Thoughts on The Journey Back by Dolly Allen
I do not see any way home for me following the reveal of my lies and infidelity. However, what is true for me isn’t true for everyone. Don’t let angry pride make you a fool.
Read More 18: Thoughts on The Journey Back by Dolly Allen17: Thoughts on Why Rock Bottom is a Powerful Place by Lisa Arends
Originally posted on Lessons From the End of a Marriage:
Rock Bottom. A place that brings dread. That no one would choose to visit. And yet it is also a place of mysterious power. That allows us to tap into the power within ourselves. Because when you’re at Rock Bottom you have… Nothing to Lose…
16: Well, that’s a pain
When I embrace my pain, instead of treating it like the enemy, it becomes the doorway to wholeness. Which is all I ever wanted.
Read More 16: Well, that’s a pain15: Narcissists and other ghost stories
Sure there are monsters, but in truth, most of what we are calling monster behavior is simply someone doing something stupid for stupid and innocent reasons. It’s just poor judgment, not pathological.
There are actually very few monsters.
Read More 15: Narcissists and other ghost stories14: Thoughts on the Pros and Cons of a Disappearing Act by Lisa Arends
Originally posted on Lessons From the End of a Marriage:
Being abandoned sucks. The shock alone is enough to stop your heart. And then, once it starts beating again, all you want to to is yell at your so-called partner who thought it was acceptable to simply walk away with no notice and no dialog. It…
14: Thoughts on the Pros and Cons of a Disappearing Act by Lisa Arends
Originally posted on Lessons From the End of a Marriage:
Being abandoned sucks. The shock alone is enough to stop your heart. And then, once it starts beating again, all you want to to is yell at your so-called partner who thought it was acceptable to simply walk away with no notice and no dialog. It…
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