Tag: Infidelities and Betrayal
52: My Anxious Bladder
I hate admitting anxiety is an issue. “Anxiety is for women. Real men don’t get anxious,” my Pride tells me.
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Thoughts on Pema Chödrön’s Non-Aggression and the 4 Maras
We are what we embrace. If we embrace the problem than we are the problem. If we embrace the solution we are the solution. If I embrace shame do I not become my shame?
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Thoughts on Pema Chödrön’s Non-Aggression and the 4 Maras
We are what we embrace. If we embrace the problem than we are the problem. If we embrace the solution we are the solution. If I embrace shame do I not become my shame?
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06: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Suicide
Pain isn’t the enemy. Suicide isn’t the answer.
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The Things I Carry – The Preamble to Failure
One of the accusations leveled at men and women post discovery of #infidelity is the intentions to change, remorse, shame is all manufactured after the fact. That wasn’t my experience. I rediscovered a post about shame I wrote to © a month before discovery.
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05: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Labels and Abuse
It is impossible for people that never walked in our shoes to know what is true about our behaviors, why we did what we did, or what it means. I barely understand and others certainly never will.
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44: Passing Judgement
What I know now after nearly two years of counseling is no one deserves anything. We are not entitled to happiness, comfort, safety, or even the truth or honesty. We are owed nothing. The only right we have with other people is to leave. We choose to stay, we choose to leave, but it is still our choice.
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