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03: More of This and That

Contrary to what people claim, not everyone wants their loved ones to grow, they simply want them to change.

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02: Own Your Shame

The cynical and bitter will call it image management.

Everyone else will call it adulting.

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02: Own Your Shame

The cynical and bitter will call it image management.

Everyone else will call it adulting.

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16: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – How Did I Get Here?

During Week 2 of Affair Recovery’s Hope for Healing’s seventeen week program the participants are asked to answer the question, “How did I get here?” and read it to the small group.

Below is my response.

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16: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – How Did I Get Here?

During Week 2 of Affair Recovery’s Hope for Healing’s seventeen week program the participants are asked to answer the question, “How did I get here?” and read it to the small group.

Below is my response.

Read More 16: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – How Did I Get Here?

01: The Unforced Errors – Thoughts on Affair Recovery

Thoughts on Affair Recovery’s “The 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse.”

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13: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Safety

Feelings are data, not directives.

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62: Sacred to the Touch

I will just set this here for you: whether you know it or it or not, you are valuable, you are worthy. Even when you fail. Even when I fail.

Remember.

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59: The Queen is Dead

I don’t really have much to add at the moment. Frankly, what I experienced at the train depot was eye opening and has left me disgusted with myself and others.

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54: Lessons from a Black Friday

Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.

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