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Category: Black Friday Reflections

Lessons From a Black Friday: Year Six

In loving Painter, I had to let go of everything I thought I knew. I had to embrace the annihilation. That was seven years ago today. Contrary to reports, I’m not dead yet.

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Lessons From a Black Friday: Year Five

I think given the opportunity to sit and have a conversation like emotionally secure functioning adults I would say the following: We were together and I love you. I will always cherish our moment together. I forgive the rest but won’t forget it either.

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Lessons From a Black Friday: Year Four

Four years and time marches on.

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Lessons From a Black Friday: Year Three

Three years today it ended.

I’m really grateful it is over.

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Lessons from a Black Friday: Year Two

Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.

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Lessons From a Black Friday: Year One

Well, that went better than I expected. Much better actually.

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