Nothing I do or say will create a sense of safety for people avoiding their own traumas. I cannot love someone enough to heal the wounds they are trying to avoid.
13: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – Safety
Feelings are data, not directives.
146: Thoughts on The Marriage of the Princess and the Dragon
I long for the chance to show C what is under the armor. I long for the chance to explore what C and I could create together…but that life is dead.
143: Silence – Day 34
I’m looking to answer the central question Dr. Madden asks in her book, After A Good Man Cheats, “Do u really want ur relationship back, or r u simply panicking & doing the things u think u r supposed to do?”
134: The Silent Treatment
134.01: The Silent Treatment (1 of 2)
Silence for the first time makes complete sense.
I’m such a selfish, self-absorbed, blind, deaf, and dumb prick.