09: The Hot Mess Club

Stop thinking you deserve to be hurt by her. Stop seeking out the abuse and pain.

09: The Hot Mess Club

Stop thinking you deserve to be hurt by her. Stop seeking out the abuse and pain.

08: Sidebar: Language matters

The only time we care about motives is when our behaviors don’t reflect other people’s expectations. We judge the actions of others but ask to be judged for our motives.

07: No Secrets. No lies.

My selfish infidelity wasn’t simply a breaking of trust, it was the willful assault on the foundation we had built and I had submitted to honoring.

06: Infidelity’s Paradox

Eventually our pain will fade & our life together will become simply a footnote in our hearts.

05: Impostor Syndrome

A great fireman doesn’t get credit for his valor if he is the one starting the fire.

04: For future reference

03: Labels are for things, not people

There is no honor in being a mistress for a woman where honor matters; where the Girl Code is actually a code.

02: Hope

When summer is a faded memory and the hope for spring is shaded by the short and dreary days of winter, I love the scent and colors of the Franklin Park Conservatory. It is a reminder that with patience all things grow and even the hardiest need time to gather their strengths in order to […]