Lessons from a Black Friday: Year Two
Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.
Read More"Be not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience, that shall explain and overlook the old." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Here are a few of the lessons learned since that dark, unhappy, and personally blackest of Black Fridays two years ago.
Read MorePain isn’t the enemy. Suicide isn’t the answer.
Read MoreOne of the accusations leveled at men and women post discovery of #infidelity is the intentions to change, remorse, shame is all manufactured after the fact. That wasn’t my experience. I rediscovered a post about shame I wrote to © a month before discovery.
Read MoreI know you hurt Pain is not wrong…The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain. Tara Brach, Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha Good day my Friend. Depending where you are, it may not feel like a good
Read MoreYou are allowed to change relationships even if no one else understands. You are allowed to try again. You are allowed to walk away. You are not the same person you were yesterday. You are free to chose your life even if it is misunderstood.
Even if it appears to be a contradiction.
Read MoreWhere I described Painter as my anchor, I realize she was simply a mooring and we lacked a secure attachment.
Read MoreIt seems I’m compelled to write to the men and women that betrayed their Loves, lives, and selves directly.
Read MoreThere was a great deal of beautiful qualities in my relationship with my ex…but she is not the flower. She is not the reason it was beautiful. She is not the blossom or the tree. Our life was beautiful and it bloomed because that was the season and we both contributed to the season..
Our life together blossomed because it was our choice. Now it’s time for a different choice.
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