"It hurts to grow alone," writes C. JoyBell C. "It hurts to realise that someone else won't be coming with you." As a result, I now recognize growth is always a selfish act. Always.
Contrary to what people claim, not everyone wants their loved ones to grow, they simply want them to change.
During Week 2 of Affair Recovery's Hope for Healing's seventeen week program the participants are asked to answer the question, "How did I get here?" and read it to the small group. Below is my response.