Thoughts on Affair Recovery’s “The 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse.”Read More 01: The Unforced Errors – Thoughts on Affair Recovery
If you betrayed your Love(s), life, and self you still have right to hurt, and to be happy.
You have a right to a meaningful life but you have to chose it.Read More 15: A Love Letter to the Betrayers – My Rights
How quick we are to believe the worst about people we don’t actually know because we want to believe the best about the people we love.Read More Thoughts on Mark Nepo’s Being Sad
It seems I’m compelled to write to the men and women that betrayed their Loves, lives, and selves directly.Read More 01: A Love Letter to the Betrayers
Just as “…but I love you” isn’t a get out of jail free card following betrayal, “…but you cheated” isn’t either. In both cases it is a deflection from the things that matter.Read More 36: A Bit of This and That
There is nothing simple that I have chosen to do. I think it is human to believe change is for the other person even when we know the solution lies within.Read More 32: Eeyore Visits Mordor
I have, on more than one occasion over the last 15 months found myself voluntarily leaning into pointless discussions with ill-informed people over issues of my identity, my life with my xp, and the decisions I was making before and after the discovery.Read More Thoughts on Excuse Making vs Understanding by Lisa Arends