Intentions don't matter when u r bleeding out emotionally. There is no room for nuance when performing emotional triage on your identity and life.
When I saw Esther Perel's continuum summarizing a Relationship Accountability Spectrum, I was like, "Holy FUCK! Ghosting?! That is exactly what has happened over the last year! That is what she did! That is how I feel and behave! I'm not crazy or irrational!"
If you knew someone's Partner was cheating, would you tell the man or woman that is being betrayed? What would you do?
Tonight, with Dr. Deb' wisdom, Fire and Star's love, Dr. Madden's writings, a bit of Elle insight, and a whole lot of © and Patsy III's theatrics tonight, I think I successfully buried the remains of our relationship at sea...actually a lake.