125: Thoughts on Once a cheater from Ester Perel…
“So often we want to take this behavior and now reduce the entire person to just that.”
– Esther Perel
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Love Letters to a Healing Heart
"Be not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience, that shall explain and overlook the old." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
I agree with Esther, there are so many variables to consider in answering the question but I don’t believe once a cheater always a cheater. Like she explains, often it comes down to a poor choice and an inability to communicate dissatisfaction with the relationship rather than a pattern of behavior.
I agree as well. While the pain is the same, there are different circumstances to infidelity, no one story is the same. I don’t believe in stereotyping…
Gotta love Esther Perel. She’s my spirit animal 🙂
You got Esther Perel?! Damn, all I got was a porcupine.